Monday 14 October 2013

Love happens by chance but it is kept by choice

    I know we all believe that love comes unexpectedly. That is true. You fall in love by chance. But come to think of it, somehow, love is also a choice. You can either choose not to go on loving someone and just leave or you can choose to love and stay in love. Falling in love and staying in love are two different things. Falling in love with someone is unexpected but you can choose whether or not to entertain that feeling. You can be in love with someone emotionally but staying and falling out of love is a choice. Saying "I LOVE YOU" is easy. Making promises is very easy. But sticking it out together and keeping the feeling of love itself requires a lot more than you can imagine. It requires an act of will. You will decide to stay in love by working things out TOGETHER. And you fall out of love when you eventually get tired and choose to stop trying.

   People may ask you, "Why do you love him?". You can simply say, "I don't know, it just happened". But when they ask you again, "Why are you still with him?" tell them "Because I love him". If they ask why, the simplest answer is "Because I choose to.."


                     Love happens by chance but it is kept by choice. 

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